Showing posts with label In Memoriam. Show all posts
Showing posts with label In Memoriam. Show all posts

Thursday, August 13, 2026

A Life Lived to the Fullest - Well done, Randy Mantooth

 


Randy DeRoy Mantooth, September 19, 1945 - July 9, 2026

 

There have been an innumerable amount of tributes, memories and condolences shared on social media since Randy passed away, it truly was heartwarming to see.  

In the very short time that I had "discovered" the television show "Emergency!" in late October of last year, 2025, and begun watching You Tube interviews and reading old interviews, it was so apparent that Randy had touched an enormous amount of lives.  The social media comments dated over a span of several decades, an incredible amount from active or retired first responders or those in the medical field, who had been inspired by the show.  Over and over and over again.  

Randy's sister Tonya spoke soon after his passing at the Pinnacle EMS Conference in San Diego last month, on July 14:

 

She recalled a birthday card he once gave her that read, “The two most important days of your life are the day you are born and the day you discover why.”

“And I truly believe Randy discovered his why the day he stepped foot on the stage of ‘Emergency!’” she said. - source (Facebook)

 


And it truly looks and sounds like Randy walked the walk and talked the talk.  He was so concerned about the future of paramedics and EMT's - about burnout, their funding and pay, and reminding them of the importance of what they do, as well as the reason why they entered the profession which was to help people.  This quote from an interview he did in 2019 is amazing because it so exemplified his character of John Gage, who was always comforting to those he was rescuing.  How many times did Johnny say, "You're going to be alright.  We're here to help you.  We're going to get you out of this."  He would kneel down to the victims, talking to them.  And there have been a few times where this author thought if she needed rescuing, the perfect rescuer would be someone like John Gage, who would be such a comfort.

His quote: 

All that equipment that we use in the field saves lives. It really does. But I still ride out a lot with fire departments and, more and more, I’m seeing the younger generation get so caught up in the technology that the patient gets lost. I see it. The one thing in my course of training was how you make them feel. It’s not about numbers as much. That shouldn’t be the focal point. It’s really – how are you making them feel? They’re not going to remember that you might have used the Jaws of Life to cut them out of the car. They’re not going to remember what kind of medicine you used. But they’ll always remember how you made them feel. I address that pretty strongly in my speeches.

You have a whole wall of technology in front of you and sometimes it gives the care provider a wall of anonymity. They insulate themselves away from the pain that’s there. You leave that patient lost. He’s having the worst day of his life and you’re looking at numbers. Every now and then, you’ve got to look up. You’ve got to look them in the eye and tell them – with all the compassion you have in your heart – that everything’s going to be okay, because I’m here. I’m here to help you. I’m here to save you.

via Discover Con interviews, October 13, 2019 

 

And Randy spent several decades traveling the U.S. speaking to countless groups - that's how important it was to him.  He also spoke about how he felt he could never repay paramedics because of his first-hand experience as well as one of his sisters being saved by them as well.

The amount of photos taken with Randy by fans that were shared on message boards were countless.  He had traveled so often, visiting conferences and firehouses.  The above quote really summed up how he felt and there isn't anything that could be added unless you were to read the many accounts from fans or first responders who had visited with him.

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In the too-brief time that I began enjoying learning about Randy, I was able to see how proud he was of his Native American heritage, how politically and socially aware he was, how much he loved dogs (I never would have been able to guess him having chickens, lol), and how much he obviously enjoyed people in general.  When you spend as much time as he apparently did talking to friends as well as strangers with hundreds (probably thousands) of photos to show for it, that's just a people person.  You are a people person, the best kind.

Oh, and how funny he was.  This cracked me up.  I know that he loved to tell stories and he knew that he was known for his sense of humor, but for me, the most endearing part of his sense of humor was when he wasn't trying to be.  In this audio clip, when he mimic'd an imagined 60-some year old John and Roy trying to work on a patient in a reunion project, it really sent me laughing.  

Randy had no filter.  Listen to him: 😅 😂

 

He was so self-deprecating when it came to himself (and sometimes Kevin) and aging.  This was within a fan's Facebook comment about a time when they met Randy:

I had the pleasure of hearing him as a keynote speaker at an event in Atlantic City, NJ about 20 years ago. He was an amazing speaker...warm, entertaining and of course educational. I got to meet him afterwards. He autographed a picture I had of he and Kevin from Emergency. I asked him what came to mind when he looked at the picture, and he laughed and said, "Boy, how young we were.".  - Facebook

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

With his sister Tonya and brother Don,

 


 




 
What a silly.  And no, this was not a scene included in The Gymnast ep

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 




as John Gage:  "I'm a rescue man."


in the play "Superior Donuts"

Look at this stinker:

 

He aged so gracefully. 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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In a matter of 8-ish months, I learned that Randy enjoyed camping.  He appreciated the outdoors and national parks.  He valued his family and friends.  He loved his dogs.  He wasn't afraid of hard work.  He also appreciated easy work.  😂 I mean, he spoke frankly, another terrific quality.  He loved to climb.  He had taken aerobics.  He cared about his hair.  😊  He liked to do the right thing.   He was polite (hey, that's not a given with people, anymore.)

I didn't see him in General Hospital, The Seekers, Operation Petticoat, or other projects - only saw him in Adam-12 and The Love Boat.  He didn't want to be known for his looks, but as a good actor.  Well, he had both, and a wonderful personality to boot.

On Emergency!, it was incredible that he could be goofy or unassuming one minute, and then sharp as a tack, alert and commanding the next.  He covered every expression:  sorrow, empathy, pain, puzzlement, compassion, awkwardness, frustration, jealousy, anger (boy, could he show anger! 😂), sarcasm, enthusiasm, sneakiness, worry, scorn ... you name it.  

Randy, you were a fine, wonderful actor.  And incredibly blessed with an abundance of friends and experiences.  While those closest to him are now missing him and his presence, they can take comfort that he will at least be given a new body, one that is renewed and free of pain.

It's never too late to discover someone's successful screen work and learn a little bit about them as a person and their work for their fellow man.  We at Narnia are grateful to have barely caught onto the tail end of his shooting star in real time.  

And now?  What do you mean?  Just try to keep up with that star.  Fly high, Randy.

 




 

pic sources:  discover con, pinterest, emergency51, Facebook, LA County Fire Dept, EMS1,

                     geturns, instagram, and anyone else possibly missed, You Tube

our playlist:  Oh My Angel - Bertha Tillman

                     Fly Away - John Denver

                     The Light in Your Eyes - LeAnn Rimes 

                     Shining Light - Annie Lennox

                     Lord of the Dance - James B Partridge 

                     Ave Maria - Kenny G 

Friday, September 13, 2019

In Memoriam: Eddie Money, plus Liam Payne and Louis Tomlinson Hit Up Madrid, Spain



"What I don't want to do is, I don't want to keep the fact that I have cancer from everybody," Money continues.  "It's not honest.  I want to be honest with everybody.  I want people to know that cancer's come a long way and not everyone dies from cancer, like they did in the '50s and '60s.  Am I going to live a long time?  Who knows.  It's in God's hands.  But you know what, I'll take every day I can get.  Every day above ground is a good day." - Eddie Money on axs.tv




The 80's were a great time, weren't they?  The birth and rise of the music video and MTV.  And Eddie Money was a great part of this cultural shift.  Who hasn't heard at least a few of his most famous tunes - Two Tickets to Paradise (which he wrote) and Take Me Home Tonight, featuring Ronnie Spector.   If you watch the video clip, Eddie's eastern accent is wonderful and unaffected, even though his bios say he moved from NYC and his career as a cop, to pursue music in California.  

His real name was Edward Joseph Mahoney (now I see where he got the name 'Money' lol), born in Brooklyn and raised on Long Island.  A member of an Irish Catholic family with a brother, father and grandfather who were cops, Eddie was also training to be a cop for a couple of years at the New York Police Academy.  He sang at night clubs in the evenings and at the age of 19, left New York for the state of California to pursue a career in rock and roll.  He joked about leaving police training:

"My hair was getting really good in the back, so I quit the police department," he said with a big laugh.  "I couldn't see myself in uniform for 20 years in short hair." [edit.] - Eddie Money in "From the Vaults: Eddie Money Bigger in Minnesota Than In L.A." the Duluth News Tribune
 
Music was calling him and the rest is history.


 
I did not know that he played Mimi's ex-husband on The Drew Carey Show and was also on The King of Queens.  Married in 1989 to wife Laurie, Eddie relays this story (true or not?  Come on, Eddie!) how he met his wife:

"It was in Nashville," Money said.  "She was beautiful.  I was singing 'Two Tickets to Paradise'.  Tears were streaming down her face.  I looked down and she said, 'You're standing on my fingers!'" - Eddie Money is a Survivor of Good and Bad Times, the Herald Courier.

Ha, he sounds like quite the comedian, doesn't he?  About Keith Richards (Eddie and his band opened up for the Rolling Stones early in his career):

"I was standing at the urinal one day next to Keith Richards," Money said.  "I asked him, 'What guitar did you play on Lady Jane'?" - Eddie Money, the Herald Courier.

Eddie lived the life of a rock and roller.

"I had a girl in every port," Money said.  "I drank a lot of alcohol.  I did cocaine.  Never did heroin.  Drank a lot of booze.  Wrecked a lot of cars.  I was snorting South American countries during the 1980s.  I overdosed twice, one that the public knows about and one they don't." - Eddie Money, the Herald Courier.

Eddie met Laurie in 1985 and he wanted a family, but Laurie said he needed to stop living his hard life if she was going to stay with him.  It was this ultimatum that Eddie credits for getting him to change his ways. In 2001, he would enter a 12-step program and eventually, sobriety.  He and Laurie married in 1989 and they had five children.  

Eddie settled down and his wife and children joined him on the road.  

"You turn around one day and you've become a father.  It's like, 'Whose kids are these?  Wait! They're mine!' - Eddie Money at the age of 47, to People magazine

Eddie and his family (including eight dogs) would go on to have a television reality show that debuted on AXS cable network in 2018, called Real Money.  It was this show that aired the episode last night (Sept. 12) where Eddie announced his diagnosis, which actually was made last fall.

From the Duluth News Tribune in 2010:

Q: Are there recordings that you wish you had never done?
A: I never really liked "Take me Home Tonight." But I do like Ronnie Spector (of the Ronettes, who sang with him) and having Ronnie Spector on the record was really cool. The only reason I like the song is because everybody loves it. Songs that I do that make people feel good, I like doing.

Q: What do you have planned for your Duluth show?
A: A new song. I'm proud of this song. We just finished it. All the money I am making I'm going to give to the widows of the Iraq and Afghanistan war. The song is called "One More Soldier Coming Home." It's a song about a fallen hero that comes back in a box. But it's a beautiful song. There are a lot of people out there (in the audience) with kids over there.

Q: What do you think MTV did for your career?
A: I was the first rock star on MTV because nobody was making videos in those days, and Bill Graham (former promoter) decided to make a video for me. All of a sudden I got on MTV. They played the hell out of me. Then they threw me into VH1 land. I look back at those videos and I look like a singing shoe salesman. Apollonia (of Prince fame) was in "Shakin' " before she did Purple Rain.


This interview from 2012 appeared on my timeline yesterday and showed that Eddie knew his baseball, too.  He wasn't just blowing wind when he said he was a fan of the Kansas City Royals because he knew that (at the time) they had just come off of a successful road trip.  It's great to hear him reminisce about Ebbets Field and tell Joel Goldberg about the challenges of singing the national anthem.  Eddie was a real musician.  When he talked about singing, he sounded human, didn't he?  He was concerned about clinkers and bad choices, but knew how to approach the anthem. Even for a short interview, this one was insightful.


                    
If we all could turn the clock back and do a few things different.  There's always something, right?  Here's Eddie again from the Duluth News Tribune,

Q: What do you think now about your long-ago past with drug abuse?
A: I look at it like it was a big mistake. Why did I ever do that? Why? Because everyone else was doing it, that's why. I was just in the herd. I wasn't a leader of the pack. Everybody was snorting coke, everybody was smoking pot, everybody was drinking vodka. Everyone was running around with a thousand women. One night I got really drunk and someone gave me this (drug) that I thought was OK and it wasn't. It was a really lethal barbiturate. It put me out like a light (killing a nerve in his leg.) I couldn't walk for 11 months.

Thank you for the music, Eddie.  What a wonderful gift and what a crazy life you must have led.  But you sound like a great guy and what fun it would have been to talk to you and listen to all of your stories.  I love your NYC accent and may you continue making that great music in heaven.


 

                                                   The Money family on Real Money

















I had no idea at the time this was Apollonia:




























Q: What do you think your contribution to rock 'n' roll has been?
A: I gave them some great songs. I love seeing people getting off. Now they are nostalgic about it because it was way back when. When they were younger, "Baby Hold On" or "Shakin'" came out. It brings you back to a certain time or a certain place in your life when things were different. (Being a writer of music) you become kind of immortal in a way. I run into housewives all the time that are drunk. And I always stop and take a picture. Where would I be without my fans?





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How do you follow that reflection on a very small slice of someone's life?  Someone who lived a life like that?  He seemed to be a bones-bared, lay it out there kind of guy. Bless his heart.

Well, we'll touch upon a few other items.

• Guess who looks like they're back on the west coast?  Mr. Austin.  First, someone was photographing him in the Grand Teton mountains of Wyoming, where he proceeded to perform all types of acrobatics in the water in a sudden flurry of social media activity.











A post shared by Austin Nichols (@austinnichols) on

Then, he attended Oceana's Sea of Change on September 6, 2019 in Laguna Beach, CA. 




Remember, Austin was supposed to be there last year in July and we had similar-type photos, plus this tweet from his account, instead of providing us an up close shot of the ocean view!


 
Aaaaand, we had a new Austin interview with another Jaustin reference/comparison to living in a foreign country.  Imagine that!  Seriously though, Austin was promoting This Close, which began its second season on the Sundance Channel this past week.

It was a cornucopia of Austin!



Hmmmmm...now what could be different this time?  Well, this time, the hubs is stateside, that's what.  Unlike last year, which was the #SummerOfJake.  And around that week and a half or so when Jake seemed to have vaporized from stage door action, we also had a flurry of activity with Big Sis, Maggie and Peter.  On September 6, they made an appearance at the Adeam Spring/Summer 2020 Dinner in NYC.  


 
This came after Maggie's appearance on Seth Meyers (he's kind of Mr. Reliable for the Gyllenhaal's, isn't he? hmmm) September 3.  Here's Big Sis wearing her sunglasses at night...



And Jake?  Where was he around this time of Austin and Maggie's high visibility?  Well, as we said before, certainly not being seen anywhere around the stage door like he had been since Seawall/A Life opened.  At least according to Instagram.  *wink*  But there was the big news about Sony and Marvel and the big break up and all of that.  Here's the chairman & CEO of Sony Pictures Entertainment, Tony Vinciquerra, with his "at the moment".


 

So allll of this was going on during the week that was following Labor Day weekend and the time of year when, *cough*,  many schools begin.  Narnia's jus' sayin'.....

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And Liam Payne was performing in Madrid, Spain today at the Coca-Cola Music Experience Festival and Louis Tomlinson will be performing on the 14th.  In addition to singing a set, Liam and the fans sang Happy Birthday to Niall Horan who turned 26 years old on the 13th. 




Here is the lovely Liam Payne making the fans so happy and thanking all for their support.   The crowd looked huge. Supposedly, over 30,000 in attendance. Sold Out on both days!




Many fans had footage of Bedroom Floor and Little Things.  Someone reported that his set list consisted of :  Bedroom Floor, Get Low, For You, Promises (by Sam Smith), Little Things, Stay (Post Malone), Drag Me Down, Polaroid, Familiar and Strip Me Down.  He obviously made those in attendance extremely happy and they have been expressing their support and love on twitter all evening.  Liam has a new release coming called Stack It Up on September 18. 

And yes, Niall Horan turned 26 today.  Narnia extends a very Happy Birthday to him and best wishes for another year of good health, safety and many blessings. He's a model you know! *grin*




Louis Tomlinson will appear at the Coca-Cola Music Experience Festival tomorrow, Sept 14 and his night should be as exciting as Liam's., if not more due to his lack of touring and Sony/Syco sabotaging his music releases for the last three and one-half years.  Louis, however, released his new music video "Kill My Mind" to the world today. We here at Narnia heard a collective scream of excitement, not only for the song, which is great, but for the clues hidden throughout the video. Take a look and you will see what we mean. Lots of gay (rainbows and a Pink Panther cutout). Along with a shout out to Harry. That's our guy! There were already a 1,000 reasons to love Louis. Now, we have a few more added to the list.




Great evolution in sound for Louis and we look forward to his time on stage Saturday the 14th.  Knock 'em out, Louis!

Everyone enjoy your Saturday! This was mainly published with the intent to pay a respectful and solemn tribute to the great, legendary Eddie Money, but I also ended up having fun learning more about his personal history and appreciating him more than ever.


pic sources: Daily Fail, zimbio, Listal, den of geek, Chicago 
                    Concert Reviews, Allmusic, Pitchfork, steemit, TV
                    Insider, Duluth News Tribune
our playlist:  Two Tickets to Paradise - Eddie Money
                     Take Me Home Tonight - Eddie Money ft. Ronnie
                                                               Spector
                     I Wanna Go Back - Eddie Money
                     Peace in Our Time - Eddie Money
                     Endless Nights - Eddie Money
                     Shakin' - Eddie Money
                     We Should Be Sleepin' - Eddie Money
                     I Think I'm in Love - Eddie Money