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Last, but certainly not least, our third featured, squashed and Gumby'd OTP half? Mr. Jared Padalecki.
With Austin, it was about alleged twitter DM's to underage girls and public demeaning by his most recent beard, Chloe Bennet. With Louis, it was about the creation of a baby, denouncing of Larry and a very public airport exhibition. With Jared? It's been about "unstable behavior" associated with mental illness and a repressed anger/frustration due to the hapless bearding contract he is in. The situation has seen Jared transition from a relaxed, confident intellect to a fragile man in need of round-the-clock care-taking.
Just some samplings of the rants which have been posted on Jared's twitter and/or Facebook:
Yes @delta. Joshua at gate B4 in Seattle thought it was a better idea to check my bag than to put it into the overhead bin. #A**hole— Jared Padalecki (@jarpad) July 11, 2015
.@VerizonWireless I most certainly WILL NOT go sit in a police station to file a claim because of YOUR lack of due diligence.— Jared Padalecki (@jarpad) June 26, 2015
Were these really from Jared or from someone with access to his twitter? These below are quite homophobic; somehow I doubt they are from Jared, but they are designed to sound homophobic and Mgmnt's thinking is "How could he be gay and say something like that?"
— Jared Padalecki (@jarpad) February 3, 2013
Just saw the mugshot of @justinbieber. I gotta admit, she's kinda hot without all of her usual makeup on...— Jared Padalecki (@jarpad) January 23, 2014
Then there was the famous Minnesota Hotel Ivy incident of 2016:
Jared Padalecki Sandy Hudspeth Thank you for voicing your opinions and your concern. You are, of course, entitled to both. As far as last night goes, I didn't receive "poor service". I didn't have mustard instead of mayonnaise on my burger, and she didn't give me too many or too few cubes of ice in my drink. The picture of her playing on her phone was the NICEST thing she did during the course of the evening...... No. I was subjected to a mean, spiteful human being. Period. She was mean. She was a bully. She, specifically, did several things that hurt mine (and our) feelings. She made me feel singled out and not welcome and "less than" (maybe you've been in the same situation before?). She ruined my night (if not my trip) in Minnesota. Furthermore, I'm not incredibly happy to have you express that you believe I'm not entitled to share my concerns or unhappiness because I'm a "celebrity". That's akin to the people who told me that I should be "happy" because I'm "successful", and that I shouldn't have "depression" or "anxiety" because "famous people" are so "lucky". And I very much don't appreciate being victim shamed, even though I'm "famous" and should just "deal with it and keep quiet about it". At the end of the day, I am a human being that breathes oxygen. The same as you. And, sometimes, there are people who hurt my feelings intensely and I want to reach out to my social media family to express my hurt (edit)
Whew! It's getting a little tense around here, does it feel like to you?
Let's dial it down a notch. Geesh! Here's one of the more "mild" ones, lol:
Hey @JWMarriottATX would yall DM me? I have a concern to voice.— Jared Padalecki (@jarpad) September 7, 2015
Then, there are those "events/incidents" which are surrounded with question marks, missing socks, leftover Lego pieces and whatnot.
Take several of the JibCon Supernatural conventions for instance. In particular, the Jus in Bello (JibCon) of 2014. Chaos ensued on that Saturday the 24th and Jared's public persona to the fans has never been the same since.
This probably was a clue:
And this was a clue where Jared was looking just not quite himself:
Before some of this began to happen:
"springheel-jack
Follow
My dash is swamped in cockles"
The fake makeout on stage:
It's still not been clear to me when the infamous "hotel lobby Misha Collins Swipe" took place in Saturday's schedule, but it happened just prior to the "shoulder injury" and Jared's "cancellation" from the remainder of that day's convention activities. In the following video, Jared is clearly not joking around when he chases Collins, who is indeed cowering under Jared's hold:
I'm sorry, but look at the expression on Jared's face as he spots Collins and then takes a swipe at him. That is not the face of someone "playfully horse playing" around.
Just for a different angle on cowering Collins, let's have a looksee:
Yeah, I'd say Jared was a bit upset about something, anyone else? Likely because he knew what was going to transpire that day? That he was going to have to hit the deck (literally), disappear for the day, and thereby clear the stage for that "Cocklest convention ever!" And just how was Jared "moved aside" for the day?
@SpnMaisieDaisy
Jared had something come up and is postponing his panel until tomorrow #JIBCon #JIB5
From Spn Goss:
*twitter account name* read a comment from a Russian fan. She had a photoop with them and she could smell the booze and Jared WAS REALLY DRUNK
same anon comment said he's being ill and can't do his today panel :(Some saying he is sick and others saying he was drunk
@StoriesandMagic: Daniella just told me Jared fell and hurt his elbow, the doctors said he's okay. Everything else is stupid #jibcon
galain @galain · 8mDaniela just explained that Jared tripped and fell and landed on his elbow, bruising his shoulder joint. Ouch.#jibcon - Spn Gossip
galain @galain · 1mDaniela also said he's fine and he'll be back almost good as new, if a little bruised, tomorrow #jibcon - Spn Gossip
Apparently he fell on a piece of paper and fell down and dislocated his shoulder. Well thats what one tweeter said. - Spn Gossip
The "shoulder injury" incident:
"Jared’s panel on Sunday 25th May in Rome at JIBCon 2014. He had missed his Saturday panel, after tripping and bruising his shoulder."
The fake makeout on stage:
It's still not been clear to me when the infamous "hotel lobby Misha Collins Swipe" took place in Saturday's schedule, but it happened just prior to the "shoulder injury" and Jared's "cancellation" from the remainder of that day's convention activities. In the following video, Jared is clearly not joking around when he chases Collins, who is indeed cowering under Jared's hold:
I'm sorry, but look at the expression on Jared's face as he spots Collins and then takes a swipe at him. That is not the face of someone "playfully horse playing" around.
Just for a different angle on cowering Collins, let's have a looksee:
Yeah, I'd say Jared was a bit upset about something, anyone else? Likely because he knew what was going to transpire that day? That he was going to have to hit the deck (literally), disappear for the day, and thereby clear the stage for that "Cocklest convention ever!" And just how was Jared "moved aside" for the day?
@SpnMaisieDaisy
Jared had something come up and is postponing his panel until tomorrow #JIBCon #JIB5
From Spn Goss:
*twitter account name* read a comment from a Russian fan. She had a photoop with them and she could smell the booze and Jared WAS REALLY DRUNK
same anon comment said he's being ill and can't do his today panel :(Some saying he is sick and others saying he was drunk
@StoriesandMagic: Daniella just told me Jared fell and hurt his elbow, the doctors said he's okay. Everything else is stupid #jibcon
galain @galain · 8mDaniela just explained that Jared tripped and fell and landed on his elbow, bruising his shoulder joint. Ouch.#jibcon - Spn Gossip
galain @galain · 1mDaniela also said he's fine and he'll be back almost good as new, if a little bruised, tomorrow #jibcon - Spn Gossip
Apparently he fell on a piece of paper and fell down and dislocated his shoulder. Well thats what one tweeter said. - Spn Gossip
The "shoulder injury" incident:
"Jared’s panel on Sunday 25th May in Rome at JIBCon 2014. He had missed his Saturday panel, after tripping and bruising his shoulder."
Despite
Jared returning the next day to participate in convention activities
with a makeshift sling, he went on later to have surgery, about a month later:
In the opening minutes of the video directly below, Jared says (after a slight hesitation) that he had a "broken arm and torn rotator cuff" at a Comic Con held July 24-27. He says he had surgery "about a month ago", which places surgery around June 27. The injury occurred May 24, which translates to Jared walking around with a broken arm and serious rotator cuff injury for a month before surgery was performed. What is surprising about this besides the fact that the two injuries combined should be pretty painful, is that surgery would be delayed during what is already a limited summer hiatus. Why would you wait a month and thus delay his return to filming unnecessarily? And then there's that whole X-ray/MRI thing, two tests which are usually quick and accurate to diagnose a break and when exactly were they taken? Too many unanswered questions.
Then came 2015 and the second year in a row that Jared's appearance at a Jus in Bello convention was jeopardized, and in fact proved to be non-existent.
2015-05-15 05:01 pm (local)
Thanks, anon!
I just saw this, from this twitter:
https://twitter.com/gracioussam [note:link no longer works]
From what Misha told me, I understood that Jared isn't just "sick". I think he is under a lot of stress and he may be depressed too.
I truly believe something happened to him. Misha tried to joke but he couldn't ...
Thanks, anon!
I just saw this, from this twitter:
https://twitter.com/gracioussam [note:link no longer works]
From what Misha told me, I understood that Jared isn't just "sick". I think he is under a lot of stress and he may be depressed too.
I truly believe something happened to him. Misha tried to joke but he couldn't ...
Misha said Jared has been pushing himself too hard and he
probaly couldn't take it so he and Jensen and the others told him to take it
easy - [edit. - Spn_Gossip]
Re:
Jared is sick and won't be at JIB
(Anonymous)
2015-05-15 10:26 am (local)
Oh, my
goodness. Jibcon is definitely a curse for poor Jared. Isn't this the third
toime something has gone wrong. Poor guy. - Spn Goss LiveJournal
.@jarpad get some rest, my brother. I got ur back...Always. #AlwaysKeepFighting #SPNfamily— Jensen Ackles (@JensenAckles) May 16, 2015
Jared has pushed himself to his limits and is suffering from exhaustion. -
I need all of the love I can get right now. Please please give me a few seconds of your time and write me. #AlwaysKeepFighting— Jared Padalecki (@jarpad) May 16, 2015
Dear #JIBCON and #AHBL6. I am in desperate and urgent need of my family. I am so sorry to tell you this but I must head home.— Jared Padalecki (@jarpad) May 16, 2015
Interestingly enough, just prior to this JIB2015 absence, Variety had published a story, " 'Supernatural star Jared Padalecki Talks Depression and Why You Should Always Keep Fighting " - source
A doctor came to set and talked to me for about 30 minutes or 45 minutes and said: “Jared, I think you’re clinically depressed. I think I should write you a note and we can shut down production for five days and then we can take it from there.” - Jared P.
The Always Keep Fighting campaign was started in March 2015, inspired by several factors according to Jared: losing set stand-in Matt Riley to suicide, the urging of colleague Stephen Amell, who had a campaign established in the fight against cancer, and his own personal experience with depression.
There isn't enough space to go into deeper detail really about either JIB Con 2014 or JIB Con 2015. They both could have a post by themselves. There isn't a Supernatural/J2 fan who is not familiar with either dramatic ordeal. There were many unanswered questions with both incidents resulting in Jared's major absence in one of the conventions and complete absence in the other. When a third absence would have tipped the cart of suspicious activity, the beard Genevieve was brought in and she provided more than sufficient disruption.
Ever since these times, Jared has been depicted as fragile, in need of protection/looking after, and perpetually on the verge of another breakdown.
It's hard to imagine this "old" Jared from the past several years:

has undergone an often seen new transformation, including very underweight to the point of being "smol", "drunk", in need of caretaking:
Noticeably thin:
from 2017, dominated:
From JibCon 2016:
And then it was JJ from Kaleo's turn to try and fit Jared under his protective
Not sure what message the "disheveled" appearance here was intended to tell:
at the Handlebar in Austin, TX:
and then Jensen again in 2017:
who is this guy?
Frequent mic clutching:
More symbolic body positioning?
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In summary....
This has been a bit of a read for a crisp Fall day (for some, it may take a week - LOL!), but a comparative narrative was necessary to illustrate that the emasculation of one-half of an OTP is actually a common practice in the entertainment industry. In other words, it is not an isolated phenomenon or aberrational curiosity. All three of these guys have been vilified and marginalized to sap their power and influence within their respective fandoms.
The technique succeeds on many levels. Fans are pitted against one another as sides are taken; which strengthens the hand of management teams in terms of manipulation and emotional abuse. The tool also elevates one of the pair over the other which undermines the notion that the perceived couple are compatible or supportive of one another. In other words, how could these two even be together? Or, stay together for that matter. Separation is the key. One is the golden boy, the chosen one, and the other is the bad boy, the troublemaker, or in Louis' case, the chav. What's important to remember is that the latter is the one management fears the most. The one with the voice which must be silenced. And, whose influence needs to be diminished. In reality, PR would not be so aggressive or purposeful if the couple were still not together, fighting the system that insists that their love dare not speak its name.
Austin and Jake:
Louis and Harry:
Harry saying, "I love you" to Louis
Jared and Jensen:
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